The World Doesn’t Stop: Life with Animals

When my kids were little, I quickly learned an unshakable truth: the world doesn’t stop when you’re sick or tired. The endless needs of little ones—snacks, cuddles, help with homework—don’t pause for your fever or exhaustion. It was tough, but I pushed through because that’s just what you do.

Now, as my kids have grown up and started families of their own, that truth still holds, only in a different way. These days, it’s not toddlers tugging at my sleeve but my chickens waiting for breakfast, my dog wagging his tail for his walk, the cat meowing for attention, or my bees quietly buzzing away, needing care. Even when I’m sick or dragging myself through the day, they depend on me, and the world just keeps spinning.

Lessons in Responsibility

Animals—and kids—teach you an undeniable sense of responsibility. They don’t care if you’re running a fever or if your energy is at zero; they have needs that only you can meet.

• The Coop Still Needs Care: Chickens need food and water daily, no matter the weather or how you feel.
• The Dog Still Needs a Walk: Those happy eyes looking up at you don’t understand “sick days.”
• The Cat’s Clock Ticks On: Mealtime for a cat is sacred, regardless of your condition.
• The Bees Wait for No One: Hive checks and seasonal maintenance can’t always be postponed.

Pushing Through the Hard Days

Some days, it’s harder than others. You just want to stay in bed, but you know there’s a list of chores waiting for you. Over the years, I’ve learned a few things to make it easier:

• Focus on the Essentials: The coop might not get cleaned today, but as long as everyone is fed, watered, and safe, it’s okay to let the rest wait.
• Ask for Help: If someone offers, take them up on it! Whether it’s a neighbor, friend, or family member, even small help can make a difference.
• Simplify Your Day: Adjust your expectations and let go of perfection. Just doing what needs to be done is enough.

Gratitude in the Chaos

Even when it feels like a struggle, there are moments of joy and gratitude. Watching my animals thrive reminds me that my care matters. Hearing from my kids and seeing how they’ve taken on the same sense of responsibility and resilience gives me pride. And sometimes, just making it through a hard day is its own victory.

The Takeaway

Life with animals—and the lessons I learned raising kids—has taught me that we’re stronger than we think. Even when the world doesn’t stop for us, we find a way to keep going. Whether it’s caring for little ones or a flock of chickens, every moment is a reminder of the love and purpose that keep us moving forward, no matter how tough the day feels.

To anyone out there feeling the weight of it all: you’re doing great, even when it doesn’t feel like it. 💛